Torn Through

“You know how the trainer said no one crosses the lines he offered diagonally, like being a fast feeling performer and a slow thinking analyst at the same time?” my boss asked me. “I heard that, yes,” I replied. “But you do that, are both those things.” She was right. I have always existed in … Continue reading Torn Through

The Joy Of Assimilation

Trans expression demands walking beyond the conventions and assumptions socially imposed on your biology.  It means walking outside of the standards set for men or women, going beyond the normative. It doesn’t, though, mean you have to stay outside of conventional gender roles forever, though.   Walking into no-man’s/no-woman’s land doesn’t have to be a trip … Continue reading The Joy Of Assimilation