Your Own Ass

Here’s the thing: like so many effeminate young men, I was convinced that I was a strict bottom.

People convinced me that because I was fem, that I was a bottom, you know?

And do you know what that is?

That is heteronormativity infecting our community.

And we don’t fucking need it!

Heterosexuals don’t even fucking need it!

No one should tell you what position you have to take in bed.

It doesn’t matter if you’re tall, thin, large, short, whatever, male, female, no one has the right to tell you you’re supposed to take it up the ass.

— Jinkx Monsoon, actual cinnamon roll of wisdom (x)