Is that the criteria, that only those who can be instantly attractive should ever transition?
I know, I know, I know, some men judge women on appearance first, and judge failures there as reason enough to devalue their womanhood.
But gosh, give the person a break and don’t start piling on calling her “hilarious.”
It’s just one more reason so many transsexuals grow skin so thick that it becomes the lucite bubble, and one more reason they never open themselves up to intimacy, because that means vulnerablity.
And for me, it’s one more fear to keep me down.