You have fun when you are alone, right? You have fun when you lose yourself in some music of your own making, some idea or character, some song or story, right? Fun is a very private and indvidual thing, correct?
I’ve had fun with other people when I lose myself, but very, very rarely. How can you get loose with other people around, watching you and ready to get huffy when you do anyting that makes them uncomfortable?
Play is fun, where the imagination soards and you become selfless, exploring new possibilities, feeling free. As Colleen asked me in 1972, “As a child, you played alone a lot, didn’t you?”
Playing with other people is hard and unsafe. Am I right or am I right? Other people usually just add stress and complications, so fun is easiest & best had alone.